The Practice of Belis: Traditional Marriages in The Hindu Community at Labuan Bajo, West Manggarai, East Nusa Tenggara

Abstract

Belis is the highest form of respect for a woman. Belis is an important process in West Manggarai traditional weddings, especially from the man's family to the woman's family. Belis is a symbol to maintain a woman's honor before the wedding ceremony. Belis is an object given by the man's family to the woman as a dowry in a traditional wedding. The pros and cons regarding the high price of belis have sparked debate to this day, even though the purpose of belis is an honor given by the man to protect his daughter in marriage. This research uses a qualitative method with a case study approach. Data were collected through observation, in-depth interviews, and documentation. The research subjects included traditional leaders in Labuan Bajo, Jro Mangku, community members who are familiar with the practice of belis, and some who have practiced the tradition. The data analysis technique used was thematic analysis. The results of the study show that the implementation of the belis practice in the Hindu community in Labuan Bajo has several reasons, namely as a form of respect for the bride's extended family, a symbol of the man's responsibility and readiness, a bond between two families, maintaining the honor and dignity of women, and a cultural heritage that must be preserved.